Here are some of the other myths Hills debunks: Perhaps the most surprising section of The Sex Myth is the chapter on male sexuality. Myth No. Hills interviewed young adults from all types of backgrounds across Canada, the United States, Australia, and the United Kingdom. But instead of drilling down on the nuances of female desire, companies would rather treat female sexual dysfunction as a problem that only medication can fix. Hills points out that those who would be considered unattractive by Hollywood standards are also typically considered less sexual. When Rachel Hills tells men that she wrote a book called The Sex Myth, she typically gets one response. Her research culminated in her first book, The Sex Myth: She writes sympathetically about unbidden erections and the pressure men face to perform sexually. Hills often turns to the antics of such comediennes as Amy Schumer and Tina Fey, who never shy away from sex as less-than-glamorous. Teenagers, naked, couple in threes Grandparents swing from the ceiling Everyone else has had more sex than me Uh-uh Everyone else has had more sex than me Uh-uh Corporate capers and office amour Shenanigans outdoor and in Resist, and then later you find out there's more Regret in not doing the sin Keyboard Solo All lives have to die - of that there's no help My favourite way to end 'em Is the orb-weaver spider's, whose pedipalp Enters the female pudendum Then dies on the spot His corpse there still stuck Left for his rivals to curse it He would rather die than not get to fuck! The book intertwines anecdotes, scientific research, and occasional moments of self-reflection to make the argument that people too often allow their sexuality to be defined by factors outside themselves. Personally, I reckon it's worth it Everyone else has had more sex than me Uh-uh Does everybody else get that feeling Uh-uh Everyone else has had more sex than me Uh-uh Does everybody else get that feeling Uh-uh Everyone else has had more sex than me Uh-uh Does everybody else get that feeling Uh-uh Everyone else has had more sex than me Uh-uh Does everybody else get that feeling Uh-uh. So how best to avoid letting these myths creep into our consciousness and dictate our desires? How many jokes have been made about the female ability and necessity to fake an orgasm? The key to overcoming this attitude, she says, is introspection, and being much more critical of messaging about sex and how it applies to our own reality.