Men also like significantly wetter kisses. Reports national survey findings on sexual behavior, attraction, and identity across the population and explains how scientists develop and analyze these data. That is, we need to consider how different identities come together to make and shape each person and each social group. In the short-term, men like kisses to be wet, while women do not. While women usually consider a bad kiss to be a deal-breaker, men reported that they would more than likely still have sex with a woman even if she were a bad kisser. In fact, the data showed that males feel much more strongly that kissing should lead to sex than females do, period. In , the National Survey of Family Growth found that women with the lowest levels of educational attainment reported the highest lifetime prevalence of same-gender sex. Those statements may strike some as obvious and others as old-fashioned, but regardless, they're scientifically proven. My lips were burning, tingly, sensitive, and I was hot all over. But lately, when I'm having sex, I've been thinking about having a threesome with a man and a beautiful girl. I hang out with her every once in a while, and I get so jealous. One reason this finding is puzzling is that it falls into a gap in how different types of social scientists typically study sexuality. The results showed that both men and women consider kissing an important and highly intimate interaction. If anything, she says, "instead of 'straight,' there is now a 'straight-ish' category. Then, when a good mate is found, kissing is used to increase mutual feelings of attachment. Dreamstime The meeting of lips may feel harmonious, but it isn't.