It was a pretty perfect night. At colleges in big cities, women do have more options. My favorite story is from when my son was two. You're Not Following Her Plan The girl who shows irritation, frustration, and annoyance in response to you trying to escalate things - whether that's to move her somewhere sitting down with you, to take her home with you, or to kiss her or get physical with her while you are alone - tends to present the following signs: When, that is, she decides it should happen. Since that is not her style, Ms. Involving someone else into a marriage or relationship, whether it is through nothing more than copulation, is a slippery slope. That is to say, if you're very experienced with women, and very certain in your abundance mentality, a girl who may resist most men's advances with frustration and annoyance because they don't "get it" and because those men are easily replaced e. Women are impossible to get, and incredibly rare, precious resources, to Women of average quality are easy to sleep with, but high quality girlfriends are incredibly rare, precious resources, to Women of the highest quality are easy to get, and women are abundant resources But, you can learn from her, and if you're equally calm-but-persistent, and you continue to exude your sexy vibe, and you keep setting things up so that the two of you can get together, she may just let it happen at some point in the not-so-distant future. If you are unskilled with women, women who resist sex with you do so because you're not particularly sexually exciting or skilled at getting past that resistance - however, they may not be so resistant with more enticing, able men If you are skilled with women, women who go to bed with you quickly often do so because you present such a rare opportunity for them mate-choice-wise and because you are so good at disarming their resistance - you frequently end up taking to bed women quickly who've never gone to bed quickly with another man, and may never do so again Thus, while it's fairly common for men everywhere from beginner to advanced to assume that speed-to-bed is some kind of reliable metric of "quality," it's not. This is where she'll permit you to escalate to a certain point - running your hands up and down her body, say, or taking her shirt off - but not let you get past that point - e. Namely, you can get: Token resistance taken at face value can lead to some pretty disappointed and angry women i. Make sure that you're not directly on top of her at any point until she's completely committed to the escalation; you want to make sure she feels like she has plenty of space if she needs to make a quick getaway. A lot of men make blanket assumptions that a woman who resists sex is harder to get, and thus higher quality - they assume that if she resists sex with them, she resists sex with everyone, and if she goes to be easily with them, she goes to be easily with everyone.