If that pure, uncut stallion stamina is starting to wane as he heads up and over the hill, at least it's being replaced by maturity and experience, laying the groundwork for a potential bonanza for you. What you can do: The Sexual Sensitivity of the American Male. Remember, the key is to break him out of his work daydream, so sink him in the fantasy of the experience with subtle perfume, deep kisses, roaming hands. Men want loyalty at all cost. Just pretend that it is no great deal for you. Believe me, you'll make him just as happy with a quick manual or oral oh please, oh please servicing, particularly if you make it clear no reciprocation is required. When you let your husband lead the way, it promotes a good sense of well-being inside of him and shows how much you trust him. If you jump right into romance he's likely to feel pressured, maybe even guilty for neglecting your needs. Keep your ministrations brief -- linger in one area too long with too much baby oil, and you risk bursting the pinata before the fiesta begins. These liberated women to cause some trouble for their male partners. So indulge him, listen patiently to his Tarzan roar and compliment his stamina afterward. Your words of affirmation and encouragement will pull some strings inside him for sure. While he may have been a good lover and attentive before, this is often the first phase in a man's life where he draws real, significant pleasure just from ringing your bell. Be prepared to handle this situation. When he satisfies you sexually, he feels like superman.