What do you do if a woman is shy about trying sex in the woman on top positions? First, in a straight line sideways or backwards and forwards , through rhythmic swaying of the woman's body. All these are beautiful techniques which show that you know how to please a woman in bed - a subject covered here. As another way to make love, she can change the rhythm and pace of movement, and get as much or as little stimulation to her clitoris or vagina as she wishes — always provided of course, that her man doesn't have a tendency to ejaculate too quickly, or conversely doesn't experience retarded ejaculation. He can relax, sit or lie back and enjoy sex, flexing the muscles of his pelvis, anus and penile area to speed up or slow himself down as he moves towards orgasm and ejaculation. It's worth pointing out that some women might be self-conscious in the woman on top sexual posture because they see their breasts as droopy, their belly as saggy, or their buttocks as flabby. If you're one of them, and you feel, for example, the need to thrust even when your partner is on top doing all the work, then make a conscious decision to give up your dominant attitude to sex, and lie back and enjoy what your partner is giving you. It's also a great sex position to use when the man is tired and the woman is full of energy and zest. It'd suit me much better when I felt relaxed, had less sense of sexual urgency, perhaps when I was tired or in the early morning. Sex positions like this demand the highest degree of muscular control and co-ordination on the woman's part, and a considerable amount of practice. The effect of his partner sitting firmly on his upper thighs is to stretch the skin covering the body of the penis. However, you asked me to talk about the advantages of woman on top sex, and I'd say these were all about getting greater pleasure. If this contact is prolonged and becomes a strong pressure, the glans and the cervix can push each other rhythmically to and fro, as the neck of the womb droops freely and loosely into the vaginal canal, and the woman in this position is able to move her pelvis and abdomen sideways in all directions. It allows the two partners to see each other, lets them enjoy deep kissing and other kissing; it leaves both the man's hands free to caress both her nipples; he can also stroke other sensitive parts of her back and outer thighs; and she can make the main movements during sex, which means she can control her approach to orgasm. A powerful thing about the woman on top range of techniques for intercourse that in almost every variation the woman has the ability to determine how fast sex proceeds. Whether or not he thinks it's important, I do like to climax with him inside me, not least because it fairly quickly triggers a violent and intense orgasm for him, which he tells me is amongst the most pleasurable he can experience. This is because it's not uncommon for his penis to pop out of your vagina when you are on the upward stroke, and then, if you don't respond in time, you may come crashing down on it.